Every time I tried to be a schmoozer and self-promoter in the manner you describe, I felt like a total turd. I won't even try anymore. I just look for like-minded souls and whatever grows out of that is fine with me.
When I was self-publishing and trumpeted other people's horns, though, pretty much nobody reciprocated when it was time to, for example, check out my work for potential inclusion in a show, or coming to *my* openings, so I am not doing the flip-side of that either, and not labouring on behalf of other people until I know I have some kind of existing and mutually satisfying relationship with them.
Funny thing about relationships, how they have to be reciprocal.
Hear, hear. Hear, hear it here. PL makes more sense waddling around waiting to pop than some of us wandering along aimlessly neither popping nor percolating.
Yes, Spatula, that was exactly my experience when I was promoting other artists through my 'alternative' artspaces, as well. I found that not only were things not reciprocal, but a lot of artists would go to very great lengths to suppress the fact that I was an artist, when talking with their other connections.
Now I find that I get much better results when I'm much more low-key and selective about my enthusiasm. I only write blog reviews about work that blows me away. I do equal swaps with other bodyworkers, and only make referrals when I've gotten some genuine good out of the trade. That way, I'm slowly building a circle of colleagues that I genuinely respect, and who genuinely like me, rather than an enormous mailing list full of parasitic mediocrities.
Just this week I got 2 press releases/emails from unknown people. I didn't know what to make of it, then I was kinda flattered to be on their radar at all. Unfortunately the projects weren't interesting. But yeah, it's a bit much.
So many times I avoided seeing this truth, but you are very right. There's a few people I've curated into shows and they do not go to mine, ever. They make sure to send me an email of everything they are doing. And you're also right that they seem to refrain from seeing me as an artist. It's not useful to them.
Yes, emails from people and galleries I don't know are instantly deleted, whereas I still do open mail, and it's possible could be beguiled by an image.
Thinking of you as you get closer to popping time!
PL had a big healthy baby girl yesterday. Mom, baby and dad and are all a little tired but doing fine. I will leave all the details to PL to report when she's ready.
THANK YOU ORIANE!!! Wonderful news! Oh I'm SO glad!
Steph, when you decide to leave all this baby shenanigans business behind for a while, we'll be sitting on the edges of our chairs waiting to hear how it all came to pass.
And you're safe. And the baby is safe. And your mom too, I bet.
And Joe. Joe, something tells me you were an absolute champ through all this.
PL: Be well! I just had to check in and see what was up wit'yu, figuring it couldn't go much longer. Congratulations and hugs and everything. So glad you and Olivia Grace are healthy.
I strongly believe that the general public will choose the art stars of the future. When 100,000 people find an artist interesting and no traditional art critics have heard of the artist it tells you that maybe the 'insiders' are now on the outside. After all, due to the internet anyone can be on the inside now because the system, if you will, has expanded beyond what the traditional market expected. Look at the art mags that are rushing to have awesome websites now. They were slow to move and now they might just be too late.
Darlings, where to start? Sometimes I feel as though I have lived a thousand lives in this one, dewy and unlined though my complexion may be. To Tell All may be to intimidate; thus I maintain, at most times, a discreet reserve. But here I share my musings, perhaps revealing the secret to my exquisite poise and charm.
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Every time I tried to be a schmoozer and self-promoter in the manner you describe, I felt like a total turd. I won't even try anymore. I just look for like-minded souls and whatever grows out of that is fine with me.
When I was self-publishing and trumpeted other people's horns, though, pretty much nobody reciprocated when it was time to, for example, check out my work for potential inclusion in a show, or coming to *my* openings, so I am not doing the flip-side of that either, and not labouring on behalf of other people until I know I have some kind of existing and mutually satisfying relationship with them.
Funny thing about relationships, how they have to be reciprocal.
Hear, hear. Hear, hear it here. PL makes more sense waddling around waiting to pop than some of us wandering along aimlessly neither popping nor percolating.
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Oh, O, I blush.
Yes, Spatula, that was exactly my experience when I was promoting other artists through my 'alternative' artspaces, as well. I found that not only were things not reciprocal, but a lot of artists would go to very great lengths to suppress the fact that I was an artist, when talking with their other connections.
Now I find that I get much better results when I'm much more low-key and selective about my enthusiasm. I only write blog reviews about work that blows me away. I do equal swaps with other bodyworkers, and only make referrals when I've gotten some genuine good out of the trade. That way, I'm slowly building a circle of colleagues that I genuinely respect, and who genuinely like me, rather than an enormous mailing list full of parasitic mediocrities.
Just this week I got 2 press releases/emails from unknown people. I didn't know what to make of it, then I was kinda flattered to be on their radar at all. Unfortunately the projects weren't interesting. But yeah, it's a bit much.
So many times I avoided seeing this truth, but you are very right. There's a few people I've curated into shows and they do not go to mine, ever. They make sure to send me an email of everything they are doing. And you're also right that they seem to refrain from seeing me as an artist. It's not useful to them.
Yes, emails from people and galleries I don't know are instantly deleted, whereas I still do open mail, and it's possible could be beguiled by an image.
Thinking of you as you get closer to popping time!
Is there any news? The suspense is becoming unbearable.
Hey everyone,
PL had a big healthy baby girl yesterday. Mom, baby and dad and are all a little tired but doing fine. I will leave all the details to PL to report when she's ready.
THANK YOU ORIANE!!! Wonderful news! Oh I'm SO glad!
Steph, when you decide to leave all this baby shenanigans business behind for a while, we'll be sitting on the edges of our chairs waiting to hear how it all came to pass.
And you're safe. And the baby is safe. And your mom too, I bet.
And Joe. Joe, something tells me you were an absolute champ through all this.
Update:
Stephanie and baby Olivia Grace are coming home today. OG sleeps well, doesn't fuss and rarely cries. Everybody is healthy. More news later.
Congratulations! What a lovely name. (I am partial to Olivias: my boys' piano teacher is one and she is a treasure.)
Look forward to hearing more.
PL: Be well!
I just had to check in and see what was up wit'yu, figuring it couldn't go much longer. Congratulations and hugs and everything. So glad you and Olivia Grace are healthy.
I strongly believe that the general public will choose the art stars of the future. When 100,000 people find an artist interesting and no traditional art critics have heard of the artist it tells you that maybe the 'insiders' are now on the outside. After all, due to the internet anyone can be on the inside now because the system, if you will, has expanded beyond what the traditional market expected. Look at the art mags that are rushing to have awesome websites now. They were slow to move and now they might just be too late.
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