My inner demons became about 60% more docile the minute I declared a full news ban. I don't listen to news on the radio. I don't read news online. I don't read newspapers. I don't even read the little headline ticker on fancy elevator screens.
It really helps. You are not missing anything good. You are missing despair, sadness, loss, horror, fear, helplessness and other things that are VERY BAD FOR YOU.
As for folks who are scared about economic meltdown (including me), this is what my saner voice has to say:
We will be OK as long as we have each other. We will be OK as long as we nurture each other. We will be OK.
I know this. I know this because my country of origin ate itself and we came through it.
I know this because my mom and I came to Canada with exactly $72 between us, with all our savings seized at the Sheremetievo airport. We came through it.
Times are always weird. Societies are always in flux. Unintended consequences have been biting us at the ass since man poked fire, said, "Glurgh! Hot!" We'll make it. So long as we take care of each other and stay calm, we'll make it.
Oddly enough, I've been following your advice without meaning to. I've been barely checking blogs lately.
My father told me today he doesn't watch the news any more. "As someone wise once said," he told me, "If you don't watch the news, you're uninformed. If you watch the news, you're misinformed. I'd rather be uninformed."
" We'll make it" Unless we don't. Some of us make it and many do not. I'm not under any illusions that I, personally, will be one of the ones who does make it. And I'm not so sure that "we" as a country will make it either.
But I did go to yoga today, and it was good. Because as long as we're still alive, we may as well make the best of it. x O
"Unless we don't. Some of us make it and many do not. I'm not under any illusions that I, personally, will be one of the ones who does make it."
Dude. You sound so determined to keep it grim. By that logic, none of us will make it. We're all gonna die at some point
I am talking about making it in broader terms. Survival of self-respect, love, altruism - those things are up to us, and we CAN keep them, in good times or bad. If we do, we have made it. And even during bad times, people have choices and some power to help each other. And even bad times get better. Everything changes.
I don't like discussing politics because people tend to speak in absolutes these days. It is almost like I'm in college again... people not wanting to associate with you if you don't follow every view that they have and all that jazz. Emotion is getting in the middle of everything.
This was remarkably prescient considering what just went down at EW. It's comforting to hear that there's something in the zeitgeist and it's not just me one inch away from a rampage.
Well, there is the heat. It's about 95 in NYC. Franklin, if you added a meltdown to this, it would be intolerable! (I know you're not in NY, but a major rampage can have a ripple effect. Help stop global warming! Don't have a meltdown!) I send you soothing karma, karmically. But what do I know? I'm dumb like an assemblagist.
A friend used to say, "it's not the heat, it's the humanity."
Franklin, after reading that EW thread (after he closed comments, or I would have simply pointed out that I am dumb, and I am a painter!) I highly recommend a long bike ride, fifty pushups, a long shower, and inducing Supergirl to take a half-day off work. I do believe your hormones are peaking. ;-)
Are people really so terrified, PL? I don't feel terrified, I feel exhilarated and alive. How else to meet this world? You will tell me please if I am shockingly aberrant.
I spent the past weekend in the middle of the Ozark mountains, curling up in patches of dappled sunlight like a cat and hunting mushrooms (both edible and extremely deadly. I wonder what a few grams of Death Angels will bring me on Craigslist?).
Your advice is a bit late, but nonetheless perfect (as always).
Darlings, where to start? Sometimes I feel as though I have lived a thousand lives in this one, dewy and unlined though my complexion may be. To Tell All may be to intimidate; thus I maintain, at most times, a discreet reserve. But here I share my musings, perhaps revealing the secret to my exquisite poise and charm.
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My inner demons became about 60% more docile the minute I declared a full news ban. I don't listen to news on the radio. I don't read news online. I don't read newspapers. I don't even read the little headline ticker on fancy elevator screens.
It really helps. You are not missing anything good. You are missing despair, sadness, loss, horror, fear, helplessness and other things that are VERY BAD FOR YOU.
As for folks who are scared about economic meltdown (including me), this is what my saner voice has to say:
We will be OK as long as we have each other. We will be OK as long as we nurture each other. We will be OK.
I know this. I know this because my country of origin ate itself and we came through it.
I know this because my mom and I came to Canada with exactly $72 between us, with all our savings seized at the Sheremetievo airport. We came through it.
Times are always weird. Societies are always in flux. Unintended consequences have been biting us at the ass since man poked fire, said, "Glurgh! Hot!" We'll make it. So long as we take care of each other and stay calm, we'll make it.
Oddly enough, I've been following your advice without meaning to. I've been barely checking blogs lately.
My father told me today he doesn't watch the news any more. "As someone wise once said," he told me, "If you don't watch the news, you're uninformed. If you watch the news, you're misinformed. I'd rather be uninformed."
" We'll make it"
Unless we don't. Some of us make it and many do not. I'm not under any illusions that I, personally, will be one of the ones who does make it. And I'm not so sure that "we" as a country will make it either.
But I did go to yoga today, and it was good. Because as long as we're still alive, we may as well make the best of it.
x
O
Come read the garden blogs...we're a hopefull bunch who plant trees and perennials and seeds...
"Unless we don't. Some of us make it and many do not. I'm not under any illusions that I, personally, will be one of the ones who does make it."
Dude. You sound so determined to keep it grim. By that logic, none of us will make it. We're all gonna die at some point
I am talking about making it in broader terms. Survival of self-respect, love, altruism - those things are up to us, and we CAN keep them, in good times or bad. If we do, we have made it. And even during bad times, people have choices and some power to help each other. And even bad times get better. Everything changes.
I don't mean to rain on your parade, spatch. I applaud your good attitude. (Seriously; I'm not being ironic.)
O
I don't like discussing politics because people tend to speak in absolutes these days. It is almost like I'm in college again... people not wanting to associate with you if you don't follow every view that they have and all that jazz. Emotion is getting in the middle of everything.
Excellent advice. I just returned to my office after firing a few hundred rounds at the range.
I feel much less terrified now....
"I don't mean to rain on your parade, spatch. I applaud your good attitude. "
Lol. I would like to thank the Academy, my Mom and liberal doses of anti-depressants :-D
Gotta love those meds.
Don't forget your hairdresser!
Lols all around.
O
I am not affraid...
This was remarkably prescient considering what just went down at EW. It's comforting to hear that there's something in the zeitgeist and it's not just me one inch away from a rampage.
I read something comforting this morning my Verlyn Klinkenborg.
Well, there is the heat. It's about 95 in NYC. Franklin, if you added a meltdown to this, it would be intolerable! (I know you're not in NY, but a major rampage can have a ripple effect. Help stop global warming! Don't have a meltdown!) I send you soothing karma, karmically. But what do I know? I'm dumb like an assemblagist.
A friend used to say, "it's not the heat, it's the humanity."
Oriane
Franklin, after reading that EW thread (after he closed comments, or I would have simply pointed out that I am dumb, and I am a painter!) I highly recommend a long bike ride, fifty pushups, a long shower, and inducing Supergirl to take a half-day off work. I do believe your hormones are peaking. ;-)
Are people really so terrified, PL? I don't feel terrified, I feel exhilarated and alive. How else to meet this world? You will tell me please if I am shockingly aberrant.
I spent the past weekend in the middle of the Ozark mountains, curling up in patches of dappled sunlight like a cat and hunting mushrooms (both edible and extremely deadly. I wonder what a few grams of Death Angels will bring me on Craigslist?).
Your advice is a bit late, but nonetheless perfect (as always).
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